I'm Arabella Hille, a parenting educator qualified in behavioral science with over 20 years of experience as a mother and a background in teaching. I am the author of the best-selling ultimate guide parenting series and the founder of Victorious Parenting.


My practical results-driven programs have positively impacted the lives of over 70,000 caregivers globally, helping them to bring out the best in their children.


Are you tired of defiant behavior and the endless cycle of yelling and nagging? Parenting is challenging but doesn’t have to be with the right tools. Instead, discover a natural way of encouraging good behavior that is both loving and effective. You deserve to feel empowered, in control, and confident in your parenting. 


This guide will help you across your child's whole childhood. It provides respectful solutions to both you and your child without the need for yelling or punishing so that your love and growth will have a domino effect on all that witness it.


Disciplining Without Damage is not about trying to remain calm 24/7, being soft, or striving for perfection. Instead, it's about moving towards positive leadership and gaining the right tools to become an empowered parent who is in control without being controlling.


Produce order in your home without ruling with an iron fist using my what to do when you lose it tools. Turn their defiant behavior around using my neuro-scientific strategies designed for every age and lead with confidence and strength.


Master your emotions with my "What to do when you lose it" method. Plus, you'll receive bonus resources and additional support, equipping you to discipline without damage for every age. 


✔️ Easy to follow action steps that achieve positive results.


✔️ Discover the important steps you can take now to prevent destructive behaviors from becoming ingrained in your child.


✔️ Gain more positive energy to give to your child and the other loved ones in your life (including yourself).


✔️ Written from a holistic whole-person perspective that digs deep into the root causes of behavioral issues and teaches you how to address them.


✔️ Receive bonus resources and continued support to maximize your success.


✔️ Suitable for all caregivers with children aged 1-19 years old.


It's never too late to become victorious in your parenting. You are your child's biggest advocate, and every effort you make to help them will make a difference in their future.

Here's A Sneak

Peek Inside


Ch.1 Disciplining Without Damage

✔️ Learn the difference between discipline and punishment. Learn the secrets of behavioral communication and why kids lie. Discover the history of discipline along with tools to bring order out of chaos without punishment. 

Ch.2 The 4 Styles of Parenting

✔️ Are you,

Authoritarian

 Authoritative

 Permissive

 , or Uninvolved?


Learn the 4 styles of parenting and the biggest mistakes we all make and how to avoid them for peace in the home. 

Ch.3 Obedience & Conformity

✔️ What are your goals when disciplining? Discover the difference between obedience and conformity and why conformity is the key element to long-lasting behavioral change. I will teach you how to use this overlooked tool to get your home back on track!

Ch.4 What to do when you lose it

✔️ Ever lost it at your kids only to feel guilty later? We've all been there. In this chapter, you'll learn some amazing tools on what to do if you lose them so that you can require your brain to become more proactive instead of reactive. These tools are helpful for teens too - not just for you!

Ch.5 How to manage defiant behavior

✔️ Learn how to calm your child down and what to do if they refuse to listen to you. Discover the hidden messages behind what your child's behavior is REALLY communicating. How to manage a strong-tempered child and more!

Ch 6. Toddlers 1-3 Years

✔️ The next chapters are age-specific chapters to learn more about your child in their current stage of development and how to manage their behavior effectively. 

Ch 7. Preschoolers 3-5 Years

✔️ Learn what makes pre-schooler tick and what causes their bad behavior. I will teach you my top tips for managing it and developing a stronger bond with your child!

Ch 8. Middle Childhood 6-12 Years

✔️ Uncover the most common behaviors in middle childhood. Learn how to manage their tricky behavior and what causes it. 

Ch 9. Teens 13-19 Years

✔️ The teen years can be tough but they do not need to be! Learn my top strategies for navigating the teen years. Learn how their brains and developing and how to reach them when they won't open up to you. 

Ch.10 Self-esteem, Emotional Intelligence & Discipline

✔️ Learn how discipline, self-esteem, and emotional intelligence interacts and builds upon one another. Discover why emotional intelligence is key to emotional self-regulation. 

Ch.11 Abusive Behavior

✔️ Learn how to manage abusive behavior in children and where it stems from.

Thank You For This

"I'm a single parent.

To me it's vital to prepare

my kids the best way I can.

Thank you for writing this book.

I am on my way to

becoming Victorious!!"

Maria L.

Love it

"I love your Discipline 

Without Damage book! 

I was a teacher

for 37 years and I

wish I had this information

sooner. I am learning this

now for my grandson."

Mona M.

I Feel So Empowered

"I recently made the decision

to take my daughter out

of public school.

I feel so empowered to

do things differently and

your program is one of

the steps I am taking!"

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